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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Potentially simple: He thinks she's happy with you, so he makes dinner. Do you think that might be a (small) positive and feasible step?[/quote]

OP Here - If we want something edible for dinner no. I love to cook, I would rather DH play with her while I cook or play with her after dinner.

Zero question I'm the default parent, but DH is fine with it. It's honestly how he was raised, his father is a workaholic, and his mother was a stay at home mom. She did everything, my FIL didn't change one diaper between 2 kids. I feel like DH sometimes uses his parents as an excuse as to why he is selfish (he admits it), doesn't know how to parent, etc, but he's a bloody adult who is responsible for his own decisions and needs to stop hiding behind his upbringing.

Ugh. We haven't had sex in a long time. We both would attempt to initiate months ago, but it never lead to anything. Since then, for the most part, we've given up trying.

I don't make much less than DH, only about 25% less, the difference is he is a fed with a rather protected job and has had his job longer than I.

He's not happy. I asked him a few months ago if he was happy, and his answer was he wasn't unhappy. I pointed out that isn't the same as being happy, but he refused to acknowledge he wasn't happy. [/quote]

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