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[quote=Anonymous]My DH and I have been going through a rough time.  He's out of town.  I just called him and said I'm feeling sad, would he say something to help me feel cared about?  I worked all day at my job, and I was feeling and have been feeling very alone and unsupported.  I try to tell him this but he comes back with things like "why are you calling me a piece of crap".  I just say what's going on, it's nothing about him.  How does it get turned around like that?

Tonight on the phone He said, "what do you want me to say?"  He stayed at our second house to wait for the plumber.  Then added,   "Can't I see that staying for the plumber means he loves me?  What more do I want?"

This phone call was not a fight, I didn't have a tone, I didn't nag.  I didn't return with angry words, I just listened.   I've asked other times but I get the same sort of run around, almost for two years.  He's a very smart guy, good with other people, charming to everyone else.  I've tried to talk with him.  I'm feeling very lonely and very confused.

Tnen I told him to stay out of town then, I needed time alone.  He said he can't because he needs to return something.

I can't put my finger on it, but I almost feel abused.

What do i say to him?  What does this mean?[/quote]

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