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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am going through the same thing. It is actually surreal to say the least. We had such great times and she was so in love. [b]After three kids and life over the last ten years she has so much bottled up resentment and can only focus on the negative[/b]. So sad. [/quote]

I think this is true for a lot of DWs, sadly.  I went through a period of this, too.  The only way we got over this hump was for us to change our lives and for DH to realize that he was not the only one who had to give up some things after kids came along.[/quote]

DW here. I am very resentful at my DH for the years of my shouldering the emotional burden of having a family. I woke up and realized that I do not have an equal partner. I don't want to lose my family, but I am questioningwhether this has sucked all of the love I ever had for DH. We are in therapy so only time will tell.[/quote]
Me too. It's been years of being the outlet for all his frustrations, him waffling between denying and apologizing for it, me struggling without help while I try to make everything perfect so he won't have a reason to be stressed etc. I just shit down. I have no more to give. He's finally coming around but I feel like a shell. I have nothing to give. [/quote]

I think a lot of men do this and then they are totally baffled when the wife finally has had enough and checks out herself. Honestly, it amuses me. You reap what you sow, you get what you give.

If you act like a shit and a spoiled brat for years, dont be surprised when no one wants to be around you anymore.  That's how life works.  A marriage certificate is not a carte blanche approval to act like a jerk and have your spouse put up with it. [/quote]

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