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[quote=Anonymous]I worked with a guy I got very close too. We were just friends but I developed strong feelings for him, and I thought he had feelings for me but I was never sure. I was senior level to him, and it wouldn't have been okay for anything to happen between us. I suppressed my feelings for him for a long time, but I knew they were there. My job was a dead end, so I left for a better opportunity in another state. Right after I left he started texting me about how much he was going to miss me, doesn't want to be away from me, he even said he loved me. I texted him back that I loved him too. I've had these strong feelings for him for about a year now and got pretty excited that he seemed to feel the same. He's never come out and said he wants a relationship, but that's how I interpreted these messages. But now I'm not sure. I looked at a site where he sometimes posts photographs. He just put up a photo of an ex-girlfriend and captioned it "Love." I looked back over our texts and thought about our phone conversations, and I'm pretty sure he sends those texts about missing me and loving me when he's had a few drinks. Those messages come late at night. When we talk on the phone or text during the day, it's strictly friendly stuff and there's no mention of the love/missing you so much texts. I haven't asked him about it because I know from past discussions with him that he freaks out if a woman moves too fast. I wanted to bide my time and see what happens. If this is something that could develop into a serious thing, I don't want to scare him off.

Should I let this continue? I'm going to be very, very hurt if he is just screwing with me when he's tipsy. I don't understand why he would tell me he loves me if he doesn't want something. If he wants something, then I don't understand why he's putting up photos of old girlfriends. I'm very confused about his behavior and want to know what other people think.

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