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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You don't say, "I won't do anything to hurt my friend" that leaves it open ... If she wasn't your friend you would do something?

This is how you shut a guy down...

Don't ever speak to me like that again, have some respect.
Really, sorry but I always thought of you like a brother, so yuk!
Sorry, the feeling is not mutual...At.... ALL.[/quote]

+1 Do NOT respond with "I would never do anything to hurt my friend", because that leaves open the possibility that you would be interested in him otherwise; a guy with so few boy diaries will take that as an invitation to keep pursuing you. It's good you avoid him, but next time he makes a comment you should shut it down more completely by telling him it's disrespectful and he's making you uncimfortable, and you don't think of him that way. [/quote]

^^ meant to say: a guy with so few boundaries will take it as an invitation. Whether or not you find him attractive, and it's mutual, is completely beside the point!! I mean really, how is it even relevant to the issue you've presented? He is married. Case closed. Shut it down, use your best acting skills and don't let on that you feel any chemistry whatsoever.[/quote]

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