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[quote=Anonymous]Me and one of my cousins were best friends almost like sisters with each other.  We hung out together all the time and would always spend the night at each other's house even as adults.  We had an incident last year where our husbands and some guy friends of my husband hung out at a bar in DC while we had a girls night in.  Around 9pm my cousin started freaking out that her husband was still out and demanded he come home.  I tried to get her to calm down and she basically yelled at me and went crazy.  He got home about an hour later and she was upset and pissed.  Since that day I have rarely heard from her?  I've reached out to her several times and the response has been I'm fine, but anytime I invite her out she is always busy.   She doesn't pick up the phone but she will text me. This has gone on for over a year.  So I finally said forget it, the relationship is done even though it makes me feel very sad.

My mom really thinks I need to continue reaching out to her because we were so close. My cousin's dad also left her mom for another woman and she thinks my cousin is hypersensitive about her man being out without her and may be embarrased about what happened.  Should I let it go or continue to reach out to her?[/quote]

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