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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]A woman recently joined my group of friends and acquaintances. She is 39, divorced, single, no kids. She is a larger woman. I am a petite woman. She sometimes frightens me.

She has convinced a couple of the other women in our circle of friends to pay money and drive more than an hour distance to participate in these Mudderella-type obstacle courses, where you crawl through mud and climb walls. It looks painful to me and not fun at all.

I would not be so concerned, except that it feels like she is a bully. She has begun ostracizing me from the group because I don't train with them or participate in these muddy obstacle courses. I feel like it is middle school all over again, and I am the last one picked for teams on the playground. Except when I was in school, I was into dancing and not sports. I was never very athletic or good at sports, so her taunts of me actually hurt my feelings. I even told her that, which seemed to make her bully me even more.

My group of friends has actually started to break up into two different groups because of this one lady and her muddy races and obstacle courses. The group doing the Mudderella stuff is starting to become obnoxious and mean girl-ish.

When she starts making fun of me in public, I am a bit taken aback by it. I am around 5'4" and weigh about 125 lbs. I am fit and active, but I don't enjoy training for races and muddy obstacle courses. She says things like, "Do you have to stop and do stomach crunches?"

Any one else have experienced with this type of woman and muddy obstacle courses? [/quote]

You lost me at your first paragraph. It's entirely possible that you're not being ostracized because you don't want to do these obstacle courses, but because you're stuck-up bitch. A petite one, but a bitch nonetheless.[/quote]

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