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[quote=Anonymous]There's nothing for you to say to her. There are things you need to change about yourself. I have a close friend who will take, take, take. And if she asks me for something and I say no, she will pull catholic guilt (great I guess this means we won't eat dinner tonight/shit now I have to shell out $20 I don't have, etc). I just ignore it and stick firmly to my boundaries. I only give what I'm happy to give. I protect myself. There's no reason you can't say "Julie, this thing with you and Mark sounds really stressful. I have to go to sleep soon, but do you want to meet for coffee on Thursday to talk more?" [/quote]
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