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[quote=Anonymous]I don't think you have to take any big stand, or make any overt gestures. Quite the opposite, I would suggest starting small and 1. Don't answer the phone or reply to texts after a certain time, whenever you choose that time to be 2. Stop picking up her kid from any activities Those are just from the examples you provided. I would add a third specific thing you will do for something else that you don't want to do anymore, like buying her coffee or spotting her money at outings. You almost need to think of it as retraining yourself, since you are so used to saying "yes." If you start with a few specific things and stick to it, you can gradually add in other changes and it will be more of a natural change and you can see how she responds [/quote]
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