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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here, marrying late at 36. Medium wedding at 150. We've dated a year.  My first marriage, his second. No kids yet. Not sure why I'm stressing. No financial burden from wedding, did pre-canaan, my dress is pretty, my wedding planner is taking care of all the details. I just wake up in the middle of the night thinking...what if I just pout a stop to all of this?!

And we're both multiple graduate degrees, came from intact families both sides.[/quote]

It sounds to me like you have normal jitters, maybe with a touch of a need-for-drama personality. Make a list (could be a mental list) of all the things you like about your BF and imagine how your married life will be. Refer back to that list when you feel doubtful; if you are meant to marry this man, the positive images of him and what life with him will be like will be reassuring. Also, imagine through what would happen if you did put a stop to everything. There would be a rush of drama, and then . . . you'd be single again. Is that what you want? If not, focus on that list of positives and BREATHE![/quote]

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