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[quote=Anonymous]The overwhelming majority of cheaters are terrible people that will not change despite repeated lies that they have or will.  I know a handful of them and none have changed, instead all have grown more manipulative and deceitful over time until it ultimately ends in catastrophe for one or both spouses (and any children).  If you're the innocent spouse, the best thing you can do is acknowledge the cheating for what it is, a knife in the heart of your relationship and a sign of a morally bankrupt person that you should eliminate from your life.  If you are the cheater, you should develop the character you lacked before cheating and do your spouse a favor by encouraging them to leave you as soon as possible as peacefully and amicably as possible.  And by cheater I mean the person who engaged in a continuing sexual affair.  Not the person who gets drunk and makes a human error.  The only people I know that felt "normal" after an affair were living in an extreme and unhealthy form of denial.       [/quote]

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