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[quote=Anonymous]Infidelity ruins a marriage to the core and those resentful feelings never go away but the hurt does eventually.

Imagine a movie of your broken heart being played over and over and over for years making you question everything, trying to understand why, then going deep into your memory to rethink, retrace, trying so hard to remember every single day before you found out, visiting that time again and again because you feel you had to have known but you didn't and now you feel so stupid.

YEARS. It took me YEARS. And today in my more mature self, I can honestly say it was not worth the misery. If I could roll that movie back, I would have just walked away but I didn't so I dealt with the hand I was given.

The person that cheats rarely if ever feels bad about what they've done.  They say they are sorry but they aren't. Because they are self centered.

The cheated on carries a 50 pound bag of guilt and shame over something they didn't do yet paid the price.

Then one day you say. f that. I did nothing wrong, I deserve to be happy too. And you either let it go or you go. Once you decide your fate, you feel better.[/quote]

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