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[quote=Anonymous]My sister is having a destination wedding at an international destination where neither she nor her fiance have family. I am absolutely going to attend. The issue is that I have 5 year old twins (will just have turned 6 when the wedding occurs). She and my mother expect me to bring them as well. It is a 4 hour flight and then a 3 hour drive. The flight will cost $500 each, and there will be 4 of us, including DH. I really don't think it is reasonable to expect me to drag two 6 year olds that far and at that expense, but my mother and sister became very, very upset when I told them I was not bringing them, and claimed I didn't care about the family. My sister is a perfectly nice aunt, but sees my girls about once a year, maybe twice. I don't want to be a bad sister, and am looking for honest feedback on what the right thing to do is.[/quote]
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