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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It is a legitimate question even if not helpful in solving a person's immediate problem. It is something that has crossed my mind many times because I genuinely don't believe that people change so drastically after marriage to become absolute jerks. It almost seems like people tend to under-emphasize those warning signs or feel they can change their partner. [/quote] So what if they do? Ask them that question when they're back in the dating pool wondering if they're dating a jerk. That's when you should remind them of why their first marriage didnt work out. But when they're in the middle of a crisis with the person they married, that's the worst time to start with the I told you so rhetoric. Especially if they're dealing with abuse. Bullying abuse victims doesn't make you a bigger person. [/quote] Exactly.[/quote]
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