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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm OP. We have only slept together once. That was Friday night, then I found all this out yesterday morning. We went into this relationship with the " I'm not looking for someone who wants to date around" mantra. He told me in the beginning that he is seeking a serious relationship and is not interested in a woman who is looking to date around. I want the same thing. From then on it was more of a silent exclusivity.

I don't sleep around and that is exactly why I waited. Now I can't help but feel duped, especially since we just had sex. A part of me finds this so shady that he is in contact with other women yet is calling me his girlfriend. It's hurtful and confusing. Right now I am not talking to him but he is trying his best to get me to. [/quote]

I'm sorry OP. This is a tough one. I would say listen to your gut- does it tell you that this was truly a one off, or does it say that this is a pattern?  Truthfully, I think it sounds like the former. He doesnt sound like an honest person.  But sometimes people do make mistakes.  But if it were me, I would be looking out for other clues as to his intention.[/quote]

Truthfully, I have no clue. I never had any doubt in his intentions or him being trustworthy. This has made me see him in a different light. I want to believe it was a one-time mistake but I don't know him well enough to be certain. It sucks because I am the one who is tore up in a knot over this. I didn't peg him for this type of guy. [/quote]

Yeah, well I think if this is already happening so early in the relationship then it's a major red flag and I could only imagine what he will do down the road.  At the very least it shows really bad decision making, and many would say it shows deliberate deception/cheating. I personally wouldnt want to trust my heart to this person. I think you deserve more, OP. [/quote]

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