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[quote=Anonymous]I wasn't sure where to put this, but family sadly seems to the the right place.

When DD was born, during labor, I found out that my cervix was scarred.  I hadn't had any checks until then, and my midwife later said she had only seen scarring like that with women that had cone biopsies - or were abused.  I'd never had an cervical surgeries.  During labor she asked if anyone had ever hurt me, because I was having a hard time with the checks and pushing and the pain.  I do assume she'd had experience with abused women before.

I also, for as long as I can remember, had been afraid of sex.  We waited until after marriage, and although our sex life is just fine, I know being willing to wait that long is not normal.  I put off pelvic exams util pregnancy because I was so afraid of them.  And declined cervical checks.  I couldn't stand being that exposed.  Also not normal.

You see where this is going.

I have no memories of any kind of abuse, but so many question marks have come up lately that I wonder.  Is this something I should start asking questions about?  I know families have secrets - am I overthinking or could something have happened to me?  Do I pursue it or let it be?[/quote]

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