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Reply to "If you spouse leaves the room to talk to his mom on the phone"
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[quote=Anonymous]My DH used to do this. He was usually protecting me from drama. Maybe the same thing is occurring. Every call from MIL is "Your sister did this, I need XX, this is wrong, blah blah blah. I don't have milk, I need rent, come fix my car, pay this bill, etc. etc." Conversation usually was uncomfortable or stressful, and he didn't want to have it in front of me, or anyone. Often times he would ignore calls too. She frequently abuses boundaries - very sad the way she has treated him and taken advantage of him. He didn't want me to see it. When he started letting me see - I didn't mind so much when he took it to another room. Not sure if that is the case with you, but I had no idea how bad she really was until we married. He did a pretty good job of drawing the lines between where he let her impact our marriage. I am appreciative of that, but it is stressful for both of us to try to manage someone like that. [/quote]
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