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[quote=Anonymous]Is this rude? By way of background, one sibling did and has had several children. Married spouse soon after meeting and first baby came a year after marriage. 3 more followed. So there is no need to ask them. With me and my spouse, we were a little older, got married about 2 years after meeting, got pregnant within 2 years. I am a woman and my parents and siblings asked me right away. Other sibling and spouse have been together as a couple longer than any of us (more than a decade), have been married 4 years, and haven't had kids. Is it ok to ask if they want to have them? At this point, it doesn't seem like it. No signs of "trying" either such as not drinking, losing weight, etc. I know some will say I should butt out. Fine but we are about to embark on a long family vacation with everyone there and it is kind of the elephant in the room. Everyone felt ok asking me. So is the rule somehow different when the object of the inquiry is an in-law?[/quote]
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