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I wouldn't call it a dodgy donor egg, but that's just me. To me none of these eggs are commodities.

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OP here -- Ok, THANK YOU for the correction, straight from the mouth of the high horse.  And do you really think I need to be corrected? Do you really think that after doing DE (and the not-so-easy path that usually leads a person to DE) and getting to  9 weeks in a pregnancy, a point where there is a 97+% medical chance the pregnancy will succeed, that I seriously think this was just a F*&%ing widget?  [/quote]

Yikes, OP.  I really hope you are seeing a counselor to help you through this.[/quote]

DE mom here. I think the commodities post was obnoxious, not at all in line with the usually supportive nature of this forum.

Even young women can produce chromosomally abnormal eggs. I'm sorry, OP.  I'm not sure what I'd do as far as transfer the one remaining or start fresh.   What do you think you can handle emotionally?  How much can you handle financially?

The PGD test is the same fee whether you are testing one or many embryos. Since you only have one frozen I'm guessing you did 3:1 at SG?  Do you agree with your RE's recommendation?

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Yes, I double support PP's support for OP. See a counselor??...get out of here!! OP, it's incredibly heartbreaking that you MC with an egg that was supposed to be better than your own. I went through a similar situation--but with my own eggs--I MC at the end of the 1st trimester also due to trisonomy. It is such a blow, but you did the right thing in sending the products of conception to be tested so that you have an answer abt which parent provided the defect. If the donor has a history of proven success, then I would take the time that I need to heal and then transfer the second and just pray like hell. I don't think my SGF RE would have recommended spending the flat fee for PGS for just one embryo. I am starting my DE journey this spring/summer and I am on pins and needles for the same reasons as you. There are just no guarantees. Good luck![/quote]

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