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[quote=Anonymous]I agree with all the people who mentioning breaking up. You have no legal protections, and no societial protections. You are expected to "get over" a breakup with a boyfriend, whereas there are tons of sympathy, and support resources for people getting divorced. Finally op, I suspect that you aren't as ok with this as you want us to think. A good man will marry you or end the relationship. A bad one will keep you around because he gets sex and maid service and since men generally hold the title or lease on the living arangement, he can kick you out if you don't perform. He can also keep his options open very easily should he meet the right honey. Far easier on him to say "My girlfriend moved out last week" then "I'm separated". Finally, and this probably only applies if you have children "My husband will be home after school" sounds way better to other moms then "my boyfriend will be home after school". Right or not, "husband" connotes a societal vetting that the man in question is ok to be around kids, that he has a job, isn't a child molestor, isn't going to be smoking dope in the basement, that sort of thing. It doesn't mean other moms aren't wrong, a husband could very be and do all kinds of things, it's just not what people think when they hear the term.[/quote]
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