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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would be okay "living in sin" in my hometown. The problem is I've never lived in my hometown since I left for college. If the relationship breaks up one of you is basically homeless. My (now) DH asked me to follow him to law school. He would have been fine "living in sin" but I wasn't because I'd be living in another state and not know a soul should we break up. He agreed and we married the month before he started. That was almost 11 years ago.[/quote] I think morally it's fine, but it isn't necessarily a good idea, especially if you don't have good exit options or are re-locating for the other person's benefit. There are a lot of protections in marriage to ensure that the benefits from major life decisions like moving, taking on debt, etc., are shared in a breakup. Sometimes there is a lot of common sense behind these old-fashioned rules.[/quote]
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