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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am breastfeeding. I guess I feel like I am always tired and never interested lately. My husband is very attractive, smart, treats me well. He is a very caring and attentive partner. I love him very much. I never had to use lubricant and it really repulsed me. It reminded me of going to the doctor. Sex now feels so dry and tight. It does not feel good! And it feels like I'm in a different body or something. For the record, I lost all my baby weight and then some so I am not self conscious about my appearance, just the fact that I feel like I am so tired from work and taking care of our home and son that I am collapsing. [/quote]

All of this is completely normal.

Use lubricant. Seriously. Breastfeeding drains your body of fluid. I agree that it's kind of gross, but you won't regret it, sensation-wise. My recommendation is to have a glass of wine or two to unwind and give it a try at a time when you're feeling relaxed. Is there a long weekend coming up where you might feel less drained?[/quote]

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