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Reply to "DH sobered up, I'm contemplating an EA, advice?"
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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I could have written your post - including the part about rationalizing that it is sort of equal treatment compared to the lying and sneaking around and emotional absence that goes with alcoholism. I havent had an affair but have had many serious fantasies about it - if the opportunity had really presented itself in a compelling way I might have. But I agree with other PPs - even if you feel better for a bit (recognized as an attractive, sexual person, given attention you lacked in the marriage, etc) it cant help with the marriage. That rationale makes you seem vindictive - imagine explaining to the marriage counselor that you felt 'justified'... If you want to try to save the marriage, be the strong one, go to therapy, and if it doesnt work out then you are free to go. DH and I have our first appointment this week....[/quote]
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