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[quote=Anonymous]OP, you say that this person told you, an hour into the visit, that she had a cold. it sound to me that she was not really sick, but had a normal, run of the mill winter cold since 1) you did not notice it for over an hour; 2) she had to tell you about it, and you would have not noticed otherwise.  if she came to your home with a fever or actively coughing and sneezing it would be another story, but it does not appear to be the case.  this is winter, and people do have cold. if you are so concerned about your child, you should not have invited them, especially for something so silly as "helping put away the Christmas tree and decorations" (I put our decoration in a box in about 10 minute and my DH put the tree out in less than one minute, certainly we did not need any external help). my January born second child came home to a toddler sister who loved to touch her and was coming home every day from Germ Central (her day care).  I don't think it is going to be a problem, if you are concerned, don't invite people over the first couple of months.  as for seeing your friend alone, next time tell her directly, but gently, that you would like to see her  to have a special time together, just you and her. congrats for the new baby[/quote]

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