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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]May be he is just having a bad day and feeling insecure? Bad news elsewhere (illness flare up, other issue)? I know it is hard, but its actually better to talk in person and try to figure out what is really bothering him.
My DH gets like that sometimes, will pick on silly issue when something else is actually bothering him.  Not very mature, but it happens[/quote]

He is having a particularly bad week illness-wise.  Nothing like this has ever happened[/quote]

Previous PP. Than I would approach it with compassion vs. "you are a jerk" attitude.  Since he texted you this, it is hard to tell what the "tone" of it was, meaning when you actually talking to person you can see their reactin and retract, try soften the statement, explain yourself better, etc. with text is cut and dry "send".  Sounds like its total one-off for him, just wait till eve and discuss (hard, I know).  I normally try to say to my DH in such situations "Hey, what you said was rude/inappropriate/hurtful, but I am pretty sure "the issue" is not what is really bothering you.  Care to tell me whats up?"[/quote]

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