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Reply to "When DH and I were dating we aborted a baby, now we are married and having our first"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]While any individual can have a specific reaction to a situation, in general men think less about children before they are born. My first miscarriage, my DH said to me "I'm sad because you are. The baby was an abstraction" He didn't really think much about the next baby until the 19 week ultrasound, and then he was fascinated with the scan itself and all the bones he could see. He's a great dad to our children now and besotted with them. But he never thought much about them as children before they were born. I agree with a PP - don't go looking for trouble if you have no signs. However, it does sound like you have some unresolved issues and maybe you should talk to someone about that. [/quote] My DH is like this, too. Congratulations on your pregnancy and like the PP said, don't feel badly about your earlier decision. You made the best decision for you at the time. Things are different now. Hugs. [/quote]
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