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[quote=Anonymous]My husband cheated.  It took me three years to feel normal and were still together.  There is a lot of work to putting back the pieces and my husband had to takes some major lumps, like my moods were all over the place, crying one day, panic attacks the next, and pretty much do both the roles of healer and person who broke my heart which had a lot of fallout.  We made a lot of mistakes trying to fix things.  I definitely thing a professional could guide you better.  The first one we saw was awful and wanted to start right away with having me understand "why it happened."  Yes, I get I'm an awful spouse, but it made me feel re-victimized because I was in such intense pain I felt invisible.  So we found a better fit with someone else.  I still think about it a lot, less and less, a d I make a rule to try to have good fun weeks with my husband even if I'm not really there, and it's getting better.  We do really love each other and this wasn't an exit type of affair.  Best of luck.  A few therapy structures around "hold me tight" and the Gottlieb's program with the "four horseman" are pretty good for this.[/quote]

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