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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would probably lay down an ultimatum - go with me to therapy to work out issues related to this, or divorce.

Girl, you don't have time to wait for a man who still doesn't know what he wants at 40.  He's acting like a selfish child.[/quote]

OP again: "selfish child" is very accurate. I think you are also right that an ultimatum will be necessary. I don't feel like I'm at a point where I could leave. [/quote]

If it came down to it, would you choose to stay married or choose to have a child?  Something for you to consider. [/quote]

OP here: Child, definitely.

The problem is he SAYS that is what he wants. If he didn't want kids and said so, I'd be out of there immediately. But I believe that he does want them, he just wants it to happen "naturally," whereas I think it's obvious that won't happen.

I was hoping to keep this thread to the one issue, but you all are right that there is more going on and I am angry at him for more than the ART thing. [/quote]

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