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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would probably lay down an ultimatum - go with me to therapy to work out issues related to this, or divorce. Girl, you don't have time to wait for a man who still doesn't know what he wants at 40. He's acting like a selfish child.[/quote] OP again: "selfish child" is very accurate. I think you are also right that an ultimatum will be necessary. I don't feel like I'm at a point where I could leave. [/quote] Then you may have to consider a marriage without children. I wouldn't recommend forcing him to do fertility treatments with you. This is something he has to want otherwise he may end up resentful of you and the child and you probably will find yourself doing the parenting mostly by yourself. Personally I would prefer to raise a child as a single mom than with an unhelpful husband. I find it very troubling that you say he is like a selfish child. Please re-assess the marriage before doing IUIs.[/quote]
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