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[quote=Anonymous]You need to learn to be happier with yourself and your choices before you find and commit to another guy.  You need to find out why you have the attitude of the "grass is always greener..." and can't appreciate the value of what you have vs what you perceive would be better in a different situation.  Until you figure out why you pick out the negatives of your current situation instead of the positives, then you aren't going to be satisfied with anything.  And you really don't want to subject another person to this until you can sort this out.

As for being indecisive, that can often be attributable to the same instincts.  You are indecisive in part because you don't find the positives in a given choice or situation, but you flag the negatives and then you don't want to choose that.  You need to try and start to focus on what the positives are on choices or current situation.  If you can change to looking for the positives in any given situation or choice instead of the negatives, then you may find yourself able to be more decisive and happier with any given situation.

Start small.  Start by thinking positively about small choices (where to go for dinner, what to do on Friday night, etc).  Then try to expand it to bigger more complex scenarios.  It doesn't mean that you don't recognize the negatives or take them into account, but you try to identify the positives and use the positives to make choices.  Use the negatives to veto choices, but not to actually choose.

Good luck.[/quote]

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