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[quote=Incognita]I feel like I went through this phase with my DH, he could have written this a while ago. In all honesty I really can't say there was anything he did one day that effectively changed it, it was more of what I changed about my perspective of things. It's hard to give advice for this type of situation because we don't know exactly what is wrong or has changed for your wife. I will say, now that I think about it some things that helped my situation was my husband gaining confidence. He started going to the gym, dressing differently, changed his attitude from being kind of like a lost pup holding onto my leg to a more confident man. Of course the loss of attraction is what made him needy in the first place I guess, but when he flipped it around I started wanting him more. 
So much happened that I'm not sure what cause had what effect, but confidence was a huge deal.

How is her self esteem? Her lack of attraction for you could be because she, herself doesn't feel sexy. Or it could be that she has great self esteem and feeling like you aren't as attractive? Not trying to be offensive, it's just that it could go either way. What's it like when you do have sex? Or even without sex, your naked body, how do you think she feels about it? I remember my DH saying something like I don't even look at him when he is naked, and it made him feel like shit because when he saw me naked he would instantly be turned on. If it is something like physical attraction then I think that is the easiest to change. Emotional, you're going to have to dig deeper into this and perhaps try counseling. [/quote]

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