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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Incognita]No problem. Make sure you make this convo stick though, you shouldn't have to have this talk many times. Change is hard, but if the motivation is there you should get results [/quote]

This guy sounds like a wuss, so what is the wife's motivation to change:?: [/quote]

Why do people always talk about relationships and marriage like there's this game of alph/beta shit. If my DH was super good to me and I realize i'm being shit, my motivation to change would be that I'm married to guy, presumably for love, so I will change. He doesn't have to be a dick to me for me to change. Sometimes people are mean to people they love because they're so afraid of abandonment and being dumped, so they put on this tough exterior. We have no idea if he is a wuss, or what their real dynamics are.

OP, if your wife was always unkind to you, that is your problem. You shouldn't have married her. If you don't have kids, maybe ending this relationship would work.

If she's changed, I'd figure out why and I would communicate needing otherwise.

Nothing ever happens in a vacuum. [/quote]

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