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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Update. I told dh what dd said. (Hope he doesn't peruse dcum). I told him I might be the worst wife ever, but he becomes a bad father the moment he berates me for my "failings" and storms off in front of our children. He feels terrible, but i don't believe anything will change. We've had these talks before after fighting in front of the kids. It's futile.

Oh, and my "failing" tonight, if it matters: when he left with younger dd (1) to change her and told me to order for him, I ordered for everyone including 2 kids and forgot to order him a coke and to ask for bread. Something has got to change. I just don't think my dh is capable of change.[b] I would do anything. I would become someone else entirely and sacrifice myself if it would actually change the way dh treated me. [/b][/quote]

Um, op, this sounds like an abusive relationship.  The best thing you can do for yourself and your children is to free yourself and them from living in a tense household of pain and anger. I know because that's how I grew up and I and all of my sibling have serious intimacy issues.  The oldest of us is 29 and never had a bf, never kissed a guy. And she is really gorgeous and socially savvy.  The fear of intimacy and relationships, not to mention depression and emotional issues, can have permanent effects on your children.  You need to free your children from this before it becomes any worse.[/quote]

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