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[quote=Anonymous]This seems stupid, but educate yourself. Did she know the baby's gender yet? If so, use pronouns and not "it" o "your baby." Was it her first miscarriage? How far into the pregnancy was she? I'm assuming someone besides her knows these things so you can find out. I had a stillbirth many years ago and the sheer ignorance was astonishing. Several relatives told me by sick child would get better, one referred to her as "the baby who is dead," and I got a letter of congratulations on "Baby #1!" from a second cousin.[/quote]
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