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Reply to "My therapist thinks I need a divorce, and I would rather kill myself than be alone again."
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[quote=Anonymous]I'm sorry for your loss OP. DH and I had an infant death at 2 months. It was a very dark time and I thhought I wanted to divorce too. Remember you are both grieving, and may do so differently. First, try to get what is necessary to help your healing. Separate that from the issues of he marriage for now, Take time to grieve. So much is happening hormonolla wise, emotional...and it stresses he best marriages. I would recommend looking for an infant loss grief counselor -- a divorce is not something to go through now. Even if you do it later you want to be clear headed. In our case, after a year things got better. I also got RX which helped. I still grieve my baby, as does DH. We did have another child later, and things are so different now. You may be focusing on the worst of everything. Try to take things day by day for now and seek a second objective opinion from someone at specializes in infant loss, and couples counseling. My heartfelt wishes for your peace and healing. [/quote]
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