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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Look, its hard, but their pregnancy is not about you. This is their moment. Leave the gifts to only the onsies. You dont need a card where you turn it around and make it about you. Good luck[/quote]

OP is trying her best to put on a "brave face." IMO, she is NOT making it about herself.

OP, hang in there! I say this as a single mid-40-s woman who adopted the most wonderful baby girl just 13 months ago....after TTC via ART for 5 years. I understand because I know the pain of wanting a child so badly, and feeling like you have so little control.

Just know that when it does happen for you, it will be that much more special Also,know that you are waiting for the baby you were meant to have.

Not to be glass half-full for your SIL, but she still has quite a while to go in her pregnancy, just take it day-by-day....she still has a lot of hurdles to get through (despite the positive BFP.)

Finally, I think it is great that you are pro-active about explaining YOUR needs to your SIL. Yet, you ALSO seem like you are genuinely happy for your SIL, and expressing that to her, as well.

Good luck, and please keep us posted.[/quote]

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