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[quote=Anonymous]Both DH and I are like this...overly sensitive. We had to make an effort to change it. He will say "I didn't mean anything by it, I'm sorry it upset you" and I have to force myself to let it go. He does the same. It's a lot better now. It is not an insurmountable problem but it does take an open discussion to address it and a conscious effort to fix it. Also if you are willing to recognize it as a character flaw of his, tell him you didn't mean anything by it, and forgive his irritation, at that point it is his problem. "I didn't mean anything by it...I'm sorry it upset you" is as far as the conversation goes though. Don't allow him to argue with you after you've said that. [/quote]
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