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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]First, congrats on your weight loss! You should feel very proud of yourself for taking control of your health. Some men will undoubtedly feel like your friend but not all will- maybe it's best to say something early on so you know which kind of guy you are dealing with from the start? Plus if you have stretch marks/saggy skin the fact that you've undergone a weight transformation may be apparent so there is no use trying to hide it. Just because some people may not approve of a certain aspect of you does not mean you need to apologize for it. You've come a long way. Best of luck to you.[/quote] OP here: thank you for your kind words! I got pretty lucky and don't have that large amount of saggy skin or stretch marks that someone usually has after losing a lot of weight. I was lucky to work with a friend who is a personal trainer and he helped me immensely with workouts that would cause the least amount of saggy skin. I definitely have some toning to do to make things look better but I am happy with my results so far. I just hope to eventually be able to find a really supportive guy who won't judge me for my past.[/quote]
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