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[quote=Anonymous]Really need advice -
If you were nearly middle age but bk in the day your brother, father uncle or some
Such did this would you be today nervous with them and your kids? 
I'm likely way way too sensitive. 
Okay this relative when I was in high school lay down behind 
Me in hs and kissed back of my neck and moved his hand and 
Started Pushing my Shirt up until I pushed it down before anything happened. 
Very clear to me then something would have 
Happened had I not stopped it. He barely ever hugged in general ever. That was it. Maybe a few hand up a bit
Too high on back of thigh now and again thru years I back away it's done.
Fast forward close family we all see each other 
Holidays we have stayed at one another's homes. But 
It's like bam I'm all of a sudden like what happened all that
Time ago was nothing but it makes me uncomfirtable 
For my little daughter.  Because last year I said oh so and so coming
For a visit and she at age 4 says no, I don't want him too. Emphatically. I instantly 
Felt that old feeling but said to myself I'm hypersensitive. 
Life has gone on, visits bk and forth but maybe 
It's turning 40 but I hear my daughter say that and I 
Think about growing up and I feel protective of her 
About this person. Am I too over the top?  I don't know 
That I can continue staying there at a holiday.
I'm so grateful for any thoughts. Thank you. [/quote]

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