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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would just give him the $1,000 as a gift and tell him that is a one time gift and all you can do for him. I have done this with family and friends. You must draw the line for the sake of your nuclear family. [/quote] ++ If you can afford to give away 1000 then go for it. OTOH I would be annoyed if I found out BIL had a 100,000 401K but 'was advised not to withdraw' etc due to penalties or whatever. [/quote] OP here. It's been reported to me via my other BIL (not the one in question) that his 401k is actually very low, in the 30K range. Also, if he loses his job, he'll be required to repay his relocation expenses, which are totaling $50k at this point. So that may contribute to why he doesn't want to touch the 401k.[/quote]
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