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[quote=Anonymous]You need to disengage emotionally while still leaving the door cracked open, and still feel like you are a decent sister (the latter you are doing for your emotional health) To see her do this ~ only arrange to see her if there is something else nearby you'd like to do as an alternative (for when she doesn't show). Take charge of the plans - you'll meet her at xx time, at xx place. Know ahead of time what you think is a reasonable time to wait. How often would you normally TRY to see each other? For every disappointment, add in lots of extra time before being available again. Do only what you can do without being resentful and torn-up inside.[/quote]
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