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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So my in-laws agreed to watch my kids overnight. My son is almost five and told me that a "big kid" came over and watched them on Friday night while the inlaws went out. The big kid turned out to be a teenager from next door. So, my in-laws agreed to watch my kids and then hired a babysitter and went out. So mad!!!! But then, it turns out my DH knew about it and thought it was fine and didn't bother to tell me. I have never left my kids alone with a teenage babysitter and I don't know this teenager. Now I feel like I can't ever leave my kids alone with my in-laws. Also, what kind of grandparent does that????? [b]I've also lost trust in my DH's judgment.[/b] [/quote]

OP, why do you mention this? Did he convince you to leave them with his parents?

Otherwise, I think you're right in not trusting your ILs ever again to watch your kid if they say they will. They basically lied to you by omitting that "oh BTW we're going out and hired Travis from next door to watch Johnny on Friday." Neighbor is a complete stranger to you/DH, your son, and for all you know he's a stranger to your ILs too. This is a serious breach in trust![/quote]

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