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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I graduated from GU many years ago and hated it. I don't know your specific objections to the culture but my problem was that I was interested in learning more about left-liberal politics and activism and I felt that most of my fellow students were seeking money and power and big houses.

Okay fast forward to the present, I am married to a GU prof and my kid goes to GU. When dd was looking at colleges, I, too, wanted her to go away to school and I most definitely did not want her to go to GU. But due to the faculty tuition break, we thought she should apply and check it out.

When we went to the admitted student weekend, I started to shift my perspective. The weekend was run entirely by the students (very impressive). The opening speech focused on serving the community. We visited the LGBT Student Center and the assistant director showed me page after page of activities organized in support of LGBT students. I recalled the emphasis on social justice that the Jesuits bring to the university. Dd ended up going after all and with my blessing. I realized that there were plenty of opportunities for her to grow and mature into a well-rounded caring person at GU if she was willing to pursue them.

Being in the same city has not been an issue either. If your kid lives on campus, the reality is that you will never see them unless you choose to get together for dinner now and then. So it really is like they're off on their own.

I will say that dd has noticed the type of student who used to bother me back in the day - folks who are only concerned with getting ahead. And there is a culture where people work hard but also party hard - too hard in my view. But I think there are enough kids who are thoughtful about life and concerned about giving back to the community, that my kid has found a niche there.

Okay, this may not be what you meant when you said you were concerned about the culture so this may not be helpful. And of course it depends on your kid's personality and interests as to whether GU is the right fit. I always argue in favor of doing a full investigation before making a decision. Take a closer look. You're right in town so take full advantage of opportunities to visit.

At any rate, I can vouch for what it's like to have your kid go to school nearby. They can get off on their own and enjoy their independence if they live on campus. And you can still meet them for dinner once a month so in my view it's the best of both worlds.

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