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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We had a busy thanksgiving and my family was in town - my parents, brother and sis in law and baby nephew.  Since I am 8 mo preggers, DH did a lot (ok everything) as far as airport runs, cleaning, cooking et.  He was amazing   My sis in law has a huge heart and wants to help but she is sooo messy.  She leaves a path of destruction when she cooks and she did some damage to our glass stovetop and scratched up our expensive stainless steel pan, stuff like that.  My dad broke a highball glass- one of the "good" glasses in a highball set my DH bought.  I was telling him about the stove damage, and he's like - "I don't want your family to come for the holidays anymore, let's go to their house instead."   Now, overarching all of this is the fact that they all flew in from across the country.  They cooked and cleaned all weekend, helped stock the freezer for the new baby, and helped me set up the nursery.  It is always a ton of work when family visits and they are not perfect, but they are so loving and sweet and they are very kind to DH.  They go out of their way to be kind to him.  I feel like this was such a mean thing to say - even if he doesn't mean it.  I never want to feel like I cannot have my family with me, and they are more important than his highball glasses.  I feel like his mean words undermined all the nice things he did this weekend for my family - like it was all insincere.  I am having a hard time getting over this.  Any words of wisdom would be great.[/quote]

Yeah, men get to vent, too.  Stop being so ridiculous and revisit the topic next year.[/quote]

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