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[quote=Anonymous]My sister has been TTC for 2.5 years with little success (one miscarriage 3 months in of trying).   About a month after her miscarriage, I got pregnant with an IUD in place.   DH and I were told after the IUD was taken out, we would likely lose the pregnancy.   We didnt.  There has been some unspoken tension between my sister and me, but we have been generally respectful of each other.  I understood when she left my shower early and understand she will bow out of certain things.  Shes also been a great and fun aunt.

Last month, she announced she was 3 months along and began telling everyone.  Last week, she told everyone the name they had chosen.   I just received a call from my BIL that she has lost the baby due to an issue with the amniotic sac and fluid.   She is having the procedure tomorrow.   BIL has said she's not up for talking to anyond right now and has her phone off.

what do i say when i do talk to her?   I'm at a total loss and am terrified of saying something stupid.  [/quote]

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