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I wish my ex could leave the tension behind. It's toxic for the kids and he cannot let go of his petty anger.

I never cheated on him. I was a good wife. He dropped the ball well before I asked him to leave. He will never forgive me for it either. He got mean and I was just supposed to take it.

Be the nice guy. Your children deserve it. It has NOTHING to do with your ex.

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I am always nice to my DS' mother in front of him.  He has never seen me argue or be disrespectful toward her. Like I said before, we put our personal feelings aside when it comes to DS.  I will never talk bad about his mother in front of him.  I will never discuss the real reasons behind our split until he is an adult and only if he asks me.  I'll teach him to respect his mother.[/quote]

This is the PP. It's wonderful to hear this. It makes all the difference in the world. You'll never regret taking the high road. I haven't, despite the continued aggression from my ex.[/quote]

I grew up in a divorced home and my father was this way toward my mother.   He never talked bad about her.  He never argued with her in front of us.  He always stood by any decision's she made regarding how she would treat us.  He told me when i'm old enough we can discuss the split.  It wasn't until I was close to 25 that I finally sat down with him and had him explain what happened.  I think he still sugar coated it a little, but it didn't really matter at that point.  My mother was a good mother to me, we had a great relationship, and hearing about their split didn't change my feelings toward her.[/quote]

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