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[quote=Anonymous]Let me tell you that I write as someone who was very bitter after my split.

1) TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF FIRST.  Do what you need to do to establish balance in your life.

2) forgive her.  This DOES NOT mean be friends with her necessarily.  If that comes at some point because you feel it's beneficial to you or or your child, that's fine.  If you are never friends with her because it hurts or you just simply can't trust her, that's totally fine too.  She hurt you and no, she doesn't deserve your friendship.  I'm telling you to forgive her because that will help YOU move on.

3) I certainly think you need more space from her right now. Obviously the feelings are still raw.  I'm sure a part of you feels good when you talk to her and things are almost good between you.  Then you remember what she did and you get mad all over again.  This cycle is going to continue you until you heal.

4) From this point on, think about what's good for your child.  Period.  It's not about you two.  It's about the son you have.

Good luck.  It really sucks when someone who you considered a friend betrays you like this.  My heart goes out to you.[/quote]

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