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[quote=Anonymous]I've recently bad dating a man ( 5 months) and things keep popping up that are a little weird. I have a tendency to over analyze and so I need outside opinions.

1. He took me on a weekend vacation 3 weeks after dating. Friends and family were there, too. It was very fast and odd but it was a family thing and he needed a date.

2. He can be overbearing with texts and calls. If I stop texting he will ask " Everything ok?" but then reach out with a compliment 30 minutes later. Sometimes I feel he doesn't respect my space.

3. We were immediately exclusive, his choice. It was literally after the 2nd date and he was pushing for that.

4. He constantly showers me with affection. He uses statements likes " You're my perfect match". " I never move this fast but I feel so comfortable. I can tell you anything and you never judge.". Constantly telling me I'm pretty and sort of soliciting compliments about my feelings for him.

5. He has this tendency to think he's the best and talks badly about people who are overweight ( he was a chubby kid) and bad about exes. He said he broke up with all his previous girlfriends and " dodged a bullet".

6. His friends he has since childhood are all players and cheaters. There is only one that is a " good guy" but he just met him 3 years ago.

7. He has asked me questions about big decisions. Two weeks after dating he was trying to include me in choosing a job offer. That's nice and all but should wait until we are dating for 6+ months. He's done the same with buying a condo.

8. He already talks about the future with kids and marriage. I'm only 24 and he is 31. He's never been married or have kids but wants both very soon.

After reading all these posts from women who are dating men with these signs, I'm worried. I'm not sure if its my mind playing tricks and he is rushing because he likes me a lot or if I should be worried. What do you all think?[/quote]

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