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[quote=Anonymous]Not at all overreacting that you want to spend one on one quality time with her.

IMO, you cross a line when you lay on the guilt trip (can't afford tuition), make threats (won't pay tuition), or act petulant (tell her to have her friends parents drive her). It will just push her away (trust me, my mom is the queen of those 3 categories).  Send her a text and tell her to please come home and you guys can enjoy some ice cream (or whatever) before she leaves tomorrow.  Who cares, maybe a beer too.  Don't need to go into more than saying you want to spend the rest of the night with her and until whenever she leaves tomorrow.

That said, I graduated in 08 and first semester of freshman year was really lonely and isolating for me. First time in a long time I had to make all new friends and it was really hard.  She may be struggling with the same and that's why she's spending so much time with her friend.

For the future, carve out some specific one on one time so you guys have set plans. [/quote]

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