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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Not at all trying to be flip, but could you two watch an episode of Hoarders together?

I watch that show WHILE I organize or fold clothes or exercise, all the while feeling the overwhelming urge to de clutter my house.  Really, it's like watching "Scared Straight" for me...and I am constantly reorganizing and decluttering and strive to keep a very clean house.  I am a SAHM and I have a cleaning lady come twice a month.  I find that having a cleaning lady keeps me accountable.[/quote]

The hoarders' idea is worth a shot. But to your other point which I never realized was that the cleaning lady did keep her accountable and I think that's why she worked to have us get rid of them. I used to think it was a privacy issue but in reality it was a smoke screen.

I think the other part of the problem is it gets so overwhelming that it is often easy to say feck this I'm going out. I get that but it only makes the problem worse. What does get my upset is that my two daughter 's are now completely like this - its all about clothes and their personal spaces are a mess. I try to explain in her generation I married her without living together. My daughters won't have that luxury and no one is going to want to live like that.[/quote]

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